Relationship

How /relationship works, the five wedding ring tiers, and how to propose.

The basics

• /relationship marry - propose to another user.
• /relationship divorce - end your current marriage.
• /relationship view - check your relationship status and ring.
• /relationship ring - swap which ring is shown, without affecting the marriage.
• You need: to own at least one wedding ring to propose. Buy one with /buy or from /shop equipment.

How a proposal plays out

1. Run /relationship marry user:@someone. You'll get a private prompt to pick which ring you want to propose with, out of the ones you own.
2. Once you pick, the public proposal goes out to the other user with your chosen ring shown as the embed's thumbnail.
3. They have 60 seconds to accept or decline.
4. If they accept, you're both linked as spouses, shown on each other's profile page and /profile, and can collect dailies together.

You can't propose to someone who's already married, or to yourself.

Ring tiers

All five tiers work identically for proposing - the ring is purely a flex, it doesn't change anything about the marriage itself. Pick whichever you can afford, and upgrade later with /relationship ring without needing to re-propose.

Changing rings

Married and saved up for a better ring? Run /relationship ring to pick a new one from what you own. This only swaps the ring shown next to your relationship on your account page, /profile, and /relationship view - it doesn't touch the marriage, the anniversary date, or your spouse.

Old ring

Before the tiered ring system, /relationship marry used a single Wedding Ring for everyone. It's deprecated and no longer purchasable, but here it is for old time's sake: